Thursday, June 12, 2008

Simon update

Simon went to the doctor yesterday. Yep, he's a healthy, growing baby. His measurements confirmed what I already knew from his clothes - Simon at two months is the same size Benji was at six months. Simon weighs 14 lbs 14 oz (96th percentile) and is 24.5 inches long (85th percentile). Chubby little honey bunny.

He sure has a cute smile. And I love the fat, kissable cheeks. He is a mellow little boy, too. He fusses when he's hungry or tired. He does aerobics just before filling up his diaper (takes some effort to work that stuff through). He stays asleep better if I lay him down and let him put himself to sleep rather than rocking him to sleep (that's sad - it's so sweet to rock a baby to sleep). He falls asleep pretty quickly on his own, without much fussing. He loves car rides, usually.




In this video clip, Simon bats at a toy. It looks like he's doing it on purpose. Ben didn't hold a toy until he was about three months old, so Simon is still several weeks away from bonking himself in the face with a rattle. But he can make the little toy spin around.

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Book Review: Judge Sewall's Apology, by Richard Francis

Full title: Judge Sewall's Apology: The Salem Witch Trials and the Forming of an American Conscience, by Richard Francis.

The Salem witch hunt started with a couple of girls playing games with fortune telling. They scared themselves into fits. The minister claimed the fits came from the devil. The girls could only clear themselves from the charge of being witches by claiming they were innocent victims of other witches. And so the accusations started.

In a six month period in 1692, a panel of five judges and a jury drawn from the community condemned more than 20 people to death for practicing witchcraft. The accused who claimed innocence were found guilty, and executed by hanging. The accused who confessed to being witches were spared. Those who died insisted on their innocence even as the executioner placed the ropes around their necks.

The community was deeply divided over the witch trials as soon as they began. One judge resigned in protest, rather than condemn people to death for witchcraft on the flimsy and ridiculous evidence being presented. Petitions were circulated; letters were written; higher courts sent advice that would have stopped the witch hunt in its tracks. But for six months, the judges continued to pass death sentences.

What sort of man would condemn men and women to death as witches based on the shenanigans of children? Judge Sewall, at least, was a good, decent Puritan man, caught by his prejudices and simplistic worldview, who spent the rest of his life regretting his role in the event that became the American catchphrase for injustice.

Two years before the witch trials, Judge Sewall condemned several men to death for piracy. Three of the pirates had friends in high places, and Sewall was persuaded to reprieve their death sentences. He regretted allowing himself to be browbeaten into pardoning men he knew to be guilty. He resolved to do his duty to God to enforce justice. This resolve would overshadow his mercy and good sense in the witch trials.

Sewall’s journal does not contain many entries from the time period when Sewall was involved in the witchcraft trials. But in the months and years following that fateful summer, Sewall writes his efforts to come to terms with what happened, and his responsibility for it.

Five years after the witch trials, the town fasted and prayed to ask God’s forgiveness for the witch hunt and other wickedness. During the fast, Judge Sewall stood up in the congregation while the minister read his formal written apology. “Samuel Sewall, sensible of the reiterated strokes of God upon himself and family; and being sensible, that as to the Guilt contracted, . . . [for his actions as a judge at the witch trials] he is, . . . more concerned than any that he knows of, Desires to take the Blame & Shame of it, Asking pardon of Men, And especially desiring prayers that God who has an Unlimited Authority, would pardon that Sin . . .”

No other judge apologized. The minister who first cried “witchcraft!” apologized, but shifted the blame from himself to the Devil for deceiving him. The apologies from the jury foreman and several members of the jury, and from one of the girls who made accusations, also shifted blame to Satan and to the general fervor of the community. (The culture of victimhood is apparently not new to our century.) Only Sewall accepted blame without trying to wiggle out from under it.

Sewall’s journal after the witch trials reflects a more complex view of good and evil. The witch trials relied heavily on the assumption that everything is either of God or the Devil. There was no allowance for confusion, mysteries, or garden variety mistakes. Sewall’s shift in perspective is a microcosm of the general societal shift in perspective as a young America settled into the second generation of Puritans and began to let go of its apocalyptic worldview. The fact that a cow stops giving milk is no longer proof that the Devil is invading and the prophecies in Revelation are being fulfilled.

I wish the author had spent more time talking about societal trends and how they changed. The book’s strength, which is the level of detail in Judge Sewall’s journal, also became its weakness. The author stuck to Sewall’s journal so carefully that it got distracting (he interrupted the witch trial descriptions to report that Sewall talked to someone about a business deal, and had dinner with a neighbor) and then boring (Sewall had dinner with lots of people, and recorded what the menu was, and the author made sure I knew about every one of them).

The most interesting thing about reading history and biographies is to see how similar the past is to the present. Our day worries about violent crime; Sewall’s day worried about Indian attacks. Our day worries about moral decay in the rising generation; Sewall’s day worried about moral decay in the rising generation. Our day worries about cancer, diabetes and heart disease; Sewall’s day worried about smallpox, measles and fevers.

I believe that people who look nostalgically back at the good old days just haven’t read enough history books. History repeats itself, both the good and the bad.

Several factors that contributed to the witch trials coincided again in Eldorado when the government took children from the FLDS. Again, the initial accusation came from a girl who invented her story. Drastic action was taken too quickly, based on flimsy evidence and wild stories. Once things finally calmed down and someone asked, “what really happened?” people started to realize that things weren’t as dire as they’d thought.

And, as in the witch trials, at least some people in the Eldorado disaster meant well, thought they were doing the right thing, and might spend the rest of their lives wondering how they could have been so wrong.

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Ben in the Fountain

We love Thanksgiving Point. Last week, we went to the Children's Discovery Garden for our first time. It was pretty chilly that day, so we had the entire Garden to ourselves. There are fountains in the Garden for kids to play in. I wisely decided it was too cool to play in the water. Very wise. So there was no need to bring Ben a change of clothes, since we would not be playing in the water anyway.

Ben rode home in a diaper, wrapped in Grandma's jacket, with goosebumps all over his bare legs. But he sure had a great time!






Monday, June 09, 2008

Ben's bike

Ben and his cousin were riding little plastic trikes at Chelle's house. The rest of that day, Ben kept saying, "biiiiii" and wanting to go outside. So I pulled out the trike that Susan and Ed gave Ben for his birthday last year and took him outside. Mostly, he wanted to sit on it and say, "biiiiii!"

After a bit, he started pushing around on it. He only stayed on it for a few minutes before he got off and ran around instead. I called Chelle and told her Ben wasn't as thrilled about his bike as he had been at her house. Chelle said that Ben got off the bike every time his cousin Erin got off, and came looking for someone to ride bikes with him.

Grow up fast, Simon! You've got a bike-riding buddy waiting for you!







Sunday, June 08, 2008

Thanksgiving Point Gardens

The Gardens at Thanksgiving Point opened several years ago, and for several years, I have thought, "why do they think it's worth $10 admission to go see a garden?" Well, now I know why they think that. The Gardens are pretty much the most beautiful place I've ever seen. I didn't even bother taking many pictures because I don't have the skill to do justice to that kind of beauty on camera. I just walked around thinking, "this is amazing!" Shawn, you need to come down and photograph this place.

But I did get some pictures of the kids in the Garden. This is Benji in the sea of grass that makes up the Waterfall Ampitheater. I think his overalls and hat make him a pretty cute little summer boy. He had a great time running all over. There must be at least 6 acres of lawn in this ampitheater.



We were there just after a thunderstorm. You can see a rainbow in the center of this picture. You can also see a little bitty Ben on the cement pad towards the lower left.


This is why it's called the Waterfall Ampitheater. It's so skillfully designed that the sound of the waterfall does not drown out the stage. The waterfall is all man-made, and the brochure says it's the largest man-made waterfall in North America. The trail to get to the ampitheater winds through the waterfall. Have I already used the word, "amazing?"


There are about ten separate gardens throughout this place. This is Kristen in the Parterre Garden standing next to a carousel. The horses are iron sculptures packed with peat moss. I'm sure that later in the summer, the entire horse is in bloom.


And here is Benji's first skinned knee. Yeah, it isn't exactly a garden, but since it's his first skinned knee ever, I took a picture so Dirk could see it. He fell down on the bricks in the rose garden.

Saturday, June 07, 2008

Simon's suit

Simon got to wear a three piece suit to Church last Sunday. I've decided that it's mean to put a baby in a button-down shirt, but it just looks so cute! So the baby has to put up with discomfort of having his buttons buttoned. This was Ben's Easter suit, but don't tell Simon it was a hand-me-down.



The most adorable part of the outfit were the baby wingtip shoes that my friend gave me. With shoes like that, you almost have to call him Brother Simon instead of Baby Simon. Almost. Those fat, kissable cheeks win out over the serious shoes.

Friday, June 06, 2008

Field trip to Cabela's

Well, Simon took his first trip to Cabela's. Mostly, he thought it looked like a green shopping cart. He did get to wear a Cabela's hat, although I don't think it improved his view any.


Yawn


Simon's tongue is about half the length of his face.


Ben, on the other hand, couldn't run fast enough to see everything he wanted to see. Here he squirms away from me on the bench.

And here he turned into a floppy noodle to escape my clutches in the aquarium. I just wanted to take his picture!


He did hold still when we fed the fish.

And when he got to hold the gun.


Thanks Mel, for being the photographer!